Proverbs 10

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As a parent, there are several lessons that I am constantly trying to teach my children.  These lessons have become mantras that I seem to repeat over and over.  One that I repeat most is:

“Think before you speak; your words matter.”

Granted, this is usually in the context of them name-calling, but it also applies when they are debating a topic and trying to one-up each other.  At our house, we find ourselves telling our children to “google” something and look up the facts rather than guessing and stating that guess as fact in order to win an argument.

Solomon believed this, as well.  In Proverbs 10:14 (NIV), he says:

            “The wise store up knowledge,

but the mouth of a fool invites ruin.”

He was saying that the wise man is quiet.  He gathers knowledge, reserving what he has to say for the right time, place, and person.  He does not boast or brag.  Rather, he imparts wisdom.  The fool, on the other hand, is more likely to speak without thinking.  He boasts and betrays his ignorance, bringing shame and confusion.  In other words: think before you speak; your words matter.

Another thing I tell my children is that discipline does not mean that I am a mean parent.  Rather, it is because I want them to grow into the best person they can be.  It is my job as their parent to point out when they are doing something wrong so they can correct their actions and do it better next time.

Again, I was channeling an inner Solomon.  Proverbs 10:17 (NIV) states:

            “Whoever heeds discipline shows the way to life,

but whoever ignores correction leads others astray.”

Nobody likes hearing criticism, but instruction is something we should be eager to receive.  It keeps us on the right path and keeps us from making mistakes.  We have completely stopped growing when we will not accept an honest evaluation of our behavior. 

Just as I work with my children to help them reach their greatest potential, our Heavenly Father works with you and me.  Scripture guides us along the right path, and He will often place people in our lives at the proper time to help guide/correct us when we are going astray. 

Do you think before you speak?  Are you open to correction?

Shannon Bingham

Cove Missions Coordinator